A sex expert has revealed the top reason why women fake orgasms – and admits she knows that some men just don’t care whether their partner is pretending or not.
Dr Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, a sex and relationship expert, appeared on the 90s Baby Show podcast with London presenters Fred Santana, Temi Alchemy and ‘VP’, to share her knowledge on the polarising topic.
According to the specialist, women often ‘fake orgasms’ out of consideration for their partner/s and out of fear of ‘hurting their feelings’.
To Dr Tara’s shock, the three male hosts, while sharing their own opinion on the matter, said the false act was of no consequence as they could easily ‘bounce back’ and have sex with the woman again ‘tomorrow’.
Sex expert Dr Tara Suwinyattichaiporn (pictured) has revealed the top reason why women fake orgasms
She appeared on the 90s Baby Show podcast with London presenters Fred Santana (pictured), Temi Alchemy and VP, to share her knowledge on the polarising topic
In a snippet shared to Instagram, she explained: ‘There’s a lot of research on why women fake orgasms and it’s very much so that we don’t hurt our partner’.
The presenters shared a look of acknowledgement before Fred Santana replied: ‘I want women to know men have amazing bounce back ability’.
‘Especially when it comes to sex’ added VP.
The presenter then unleashed a surprising truth that some women may have failed to consider.
VP continued: ‘I’m not going to stop having sex with you. It doesn’t matter what you say to me… I’ll be back tomorrow’.
The room erupted with laughter as Temi Alchemy joked: ‘Like if you give me another chance, I’ll try again’.
VP also said that he too was considerate when it came to bedroom activities, and took pleasure in making sure a woman was satisfied.
‘Honestly, my favourite thing to do is your favourite thing… whatever it is’ he concluded.
Dr Tara said women often ‘fake orgasms’ out of consideration for their partner/s and out of fear of ‘hurting their feelings’
Presenter VP (pictured) said: ‘I’m not going to stop having sex with you. It doesn’t matter what you say to me… I’ll be back tomorrow’
The honest conversation with Dr Tara, a host herself of podcast Luvbites, elicited a mixed reaction from listeners.
While some men said it was ‘so informative’, one woman declared that faking an orgasm was bound to ‘scatter’ a man’s ego.
Defiant, one man said: ‘Dang! It could never happen [to me], I always satisfy’.
‘I’m done faking [orgasms]. I’ll just sigh and tell them I’m frustrated’ said one woman.
Meanwhile one man wrote: ‘As a man, you should know when a woman lies [because] the body tells you. From what I hear, man dem ain’t taking time with foreplay and that’s key’.
However according to one sex expert, women who fake orgasms to keep their man happy may be storing up trouble if he finds out.
While some men found the information to be ‘informative’, one woman declared that faking an orgasm was bound to ‘scatter’ a man’s ego
Model-turned-relationship coach Katie Flowers claims to have helped hundreds of women find a man but warns that dishonesty in the bedroom erodes the trust that builds a long-term relationship.
And while they may think their acting skills are up to the job, they may be fooling themselves if they think they can keep their partner in the dark because the signs are easy to spot.
‘Don’t underestimate the power of your intuition,’ the sexpert advised men. ‘If something feels off, it probably is’.
Surveys suggest that three quarters of heterosexual woman have faked an orgasm at least once, while 20 percent do it on a regular basis.
And Katie believes that histrionic moans, squeals and screams are not the signs of success that men should look out for.
Flushed cheeks, smiles and eye contact are likely to be a much more reliable guide.
‘Genuine pleasure is marked by authenticity and spontaneity,’ she told the New York Post.
‘Look for signs that signal a natural and unscripted experience’.
‘At the core of every meaningful relationship lies a foundation of honesty and vulnerability,’ she added. ‘Fake orgasms not only erode this foundation but also perpetuate a cycle of misunderstanding and dissatisfaction’.
