HOCKING

I was recently catching up with a gay friend over a few too many cocktails when his phone buzzed. Suddenly, he shot up from his seat and bolted to the …

I’m going to let you in on a little secret. Forget the clichés about us always ‘having a headache’ or ‘not being in the mood,’ we women are often in …

An article in Vogue had me – for the briefest of moments – questioning every value I held dear as a woman, a feminist and someone who (gasp) enjoys sex. …

It’s not every day you watch a man and a woman engaging in body congress before a group of strangers – but then again, this wasn’t your average weekend. The …

Fresh out of a divorce and preparing for a date with a woman 17 years his junior, Steven* had worked himself into a bit of a state. Worried about how he’d …

‘Sexless marriage’ – two words guaranteed to make couples therapists and divorce lawyers hear a loud cha-ching! Lack of sex is common in long-term relationships, because here’s the little secret …

Ten years ago, I hit rock bottom. I woke up with a sickening jolt of shame at the memory of crying at my ex-boyfriend’s front door, begging him to come …

This year, I found myself in the middle of the California desert at an orgasm retreat. I know how that sounds. Even as I was punching the address into my …

It’s safe to say that I love sex. The first glimpse of bare skin. Watching someone move when they think no one’s judging. That warm, satisfied haze that lingers after. …

Over the past few years, something curious has started happening in my friend group. Women, apparently straight, mostly divorced and fed up with dating men, have started confessing: ‘I think …